{"id":393,"date":"2026-04-06T09:18:27","date_gmt":"2026-04-06T09:18:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chomeo.top\/?p=393"},"modified":"2026-04-06T09:18:29","modified_gmt":"2026-04-06T09:18:29","slug":"i-wasnt-looking-for-my-first-love-but-when-a-student-chose-me-for-a-holiday-interview-project-i-learned-hed-been-searching-for-me-for-40-years","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chomeo.top\/?p=393","title":{"rendered":"I Wasn&#8217;t Looking for My First Love \u2013 but When a Student Chose Me for a Holiday Interview Project, I Learned He&#8217;d Been Searching for Me for 40 Years"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"694\" height=\"866\" src=\"https:\/\/chomeo.top\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/image-51.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-394\" srcset=\"https:\/\/chomeo.top\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/image-51.png 694w, https:\/\/chomeo.top\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/image-51-240x300.png 240w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 694px) 100vw, 694px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;m a 62-year-old literature teacher who thought December would be the usual routine\u2014until a student&#8217;s holiday interview question unearthed an old story I&#8217;d buried for decades. A week later, she burst into my classroom with her phone, and everything shifted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Advertisement<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;m 62F, and I&#8217;ve been a high school literature teacher for almost four decades. My life has a rhythm: hall duty, Shakespeare, lukewarm tea, and essays that breed overnight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>&#8220;Interview an older adult about their most meaningful holiday memory.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>December is usually my favorite month. Not because I expect miracles, but because even teenagers soften a little around the holidays.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Every year, right before winter break, I assign the same project:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Interview an older adult about their most meaningful holiday memory.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Advertisement<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They groan. They complain. 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